Thinking about divorce? How to take care of the child at this time?

Kolkata: And the remaining five decisions are normal divorce decisions. Just as two people can decide to be with each other, they have every right to do the opposite. But the couple who already have a child in their life, it is seen that in most cases he is bound to divorce. It has been observed that the decision of divorce has a negative effect on the mental and physical well-being of the child, irrespective of the age. But children are more disturbed in this situation than adult children. In some cases, the parents come back thinking about the child, and in some cases, they walk the path of separation, ignoring the child. But in both cases the consequences can be bad. So at this time father and mother have to be more careful towards the child.

Divorce is a long process. Here are some tips from experts on how to take care of the child in this situation

• Your child wants to be loved. So whatever the equation of your relationship, don’t let there be any shortage of love for your child.
• Make sure that your child does not feel that he is the reason for your separation in any way. In this case the child may blame himself and his mental health may be affected. So at this time, discuss with him and explain that he is not the reason for your breakup in any way.
• Do not argue in front of the child. It is better not to discuss any legal complications in front of him but maintain friendly behavior between yourselves in front of him.
• Don’t hide anything from your son or daughter. Tell him everything openly, discuss. Give the same advice to your partner. Listen to his opinion. Even if you don’t like what he says, don’t react negatively. Remember, separation of parents is the most difficult situation for a child.
• Give him time to adapt to this situation. Do not force any decision on him in any way. It is better not to change his place of residence suddenly. Give the right to choose whoever the father or mother wants to change residence. Because a sudden change of habit may not be good for you.
• Give your child the same time after separation. Take care that your child is not deprived of the love of both father and mother. Otherwise fear, anxiety, emptiness may arise in his mind later. If necessary, spend some time together in a coffee shop. Discuss it there. Above all make her feel that you and your partner are equally there for her. Even if you decide to separate as husband and wife, stay together as parents.

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Kolkata: And the remaining five decisions are normal divorce decisions. Just as two people can decide to be with each other, they have every right to do the opposite. But the couple who already have a child in their life, it is seen that in most cases he is bound to divorce. It has been observed that the decision of divorce has a negative effect on the mental and physical well-being of the child, irrespective of the age. But children are more disturbed in this situation than adult children. In some cases, the parents come back thinking about the child, and in some cases, they walk the path of separation, ignoring the child. But in both cases the consequences can be bad. So at this time father and mother have to be more careful towards the child.

Divorce is a long process. Here are some tips from experts on how to take care of the child in this situation

• Your child wants to be loved. So whatever the equation of your relationship, don’t let there be any shortage of love for your child.
• Make sure that your child does not feel that he is the reason for your separation in any way. In this case the child may blame himself and his mental health may be affected. So at this time, discuss with him and explain that he is not the reason for your breakup in any way.
• Do not argue in front of the child. It is better not to discuss any legal complications in front of him but maintain friendly behavior between yourselves in front of him.
• Don’t hide anything from your son or daughter. Tell him everything openly, discuss. Give the same advice to your partner. Listen to his opinion. Even if you don’t like what he says, don’t react negatively. Remember, separation of parents is the most difficult situation for a child.
• Give him time to adapt to this situation. Do not force any decision on him in any way. It is better not to change his place of residence suddenly. Give the right to choose whoever the father or mother wants to change residence. Because a sudden change of habit may not be good for you.
• Give your child the same time after separation. Take care that your child is not deprived of the love of both father and mother. Otherwise fear, anxiety, emptiness may arise in his mind later. If necessary, spend some time together in a coffee shop. Discuss it there. Above all make her feel that you and your partner are equally there for her. Even if you decide to separate as husband and wife, stay together as parents.

Calculate Your Body Mass Index (BMI)